Most of us have complexes, and some can overcome them and suffer, allowing these complexes to dictate their lives. Those with severe complexes are usually misfits in social set-ups and find interactions difficult. Their peer group either dislikes them or is unable to communicate well. Both men and women suffer from complexes.
Women are considered to be vain and more prone to complexes. Surprisingly, even men suffer from various complexes, sometimes making them misfits in society. What sort of complexes? Here are some interesting ones:
List of Top 5 Common Complexes Men Go Through
1. Inferiority complex
Some men suffer from low levels of self-confidence and feel inadequate. Their self-esteem is very low, and they tend to withdraw into a shell. They socialize less and keep away from light. The solution to improve one’s socializing is to have a better self-image and enhance one’s self-confidence. One must believe in one’s abilities. After all, every human being has infinite qualities. Qualities vary, but there are traits which, if built upon, can make the person appear more confident and self-assured. At times, inferiority complexes are deep-rooted on account of childhood upbringing. Although one can try to overcome them, if the confidence levels stoop too low to the level of non-performance in daily life, professional help must be sought.
It is also advisable to be among people who will make you feel better about yourself, although one should not go in for flattery or associate with those not in a position to boost one’s self-image. Their utterances can prove counter–productive as one may go around with false impressions about oneself. Also, suppose the self-esteem is so low that it prevents one from socializing. In that case, a professional counselor is the best guide to rehabilitate the person as they would know their personality traits. Being a qualified practitioner would be able to have a positive impact on the person and maintain confidence as well.
2. Superiority Complex
A superiority complex also develops from an inferiority complex. Since they have low self-esteem, they feel superior and try to boast. To avoid such bloated over-confidence, it is better to realize one’s inner potential realistically, appreciate it, and try to function within those limits. Positive self-appraisal is good, but overestimating one’s talents and other attributes is terrible.
3. Ego
Many suffer from This significant personality problem, and those suffering from it get isolated from their social circle. They boast a lot, try to dominate others, and feel they are very important. A healthy ego is good, which is possible if one knows oneself well and understands one’s weaknesses, along with positive traits.
4. Narcissism
This is certainly a trait that can damage a person’s special personality. One suffers from vanity and also feels they are superior to others. It is a psychological disorder as one suffers from a constant feeling of personal adequacy. One is always admiring one’s own physical and emotional attributes. Those suffering from narcissism usually want a lot of admiration from others and feel very important about themselves. Others may not like such a person as they may not like somebody who feels very important about themselves. Usually, this feeling of narcissism is due to a sense of inadequacy.
5. Sexual inadequacy
Several men feel sexually inadequate and either go in for medications or professional counseling. The “macho” feeling and look are much sought after, particularly in some professionals, and when these requirements are met, they feel sexually inadequate. Promiscuity also causes sexual inadequacy. The fast-changing lifestyles, which are more based on purely physical relationships than other emotional factors, also lead to sexual inadequacy. Women also face this, and so do men.
Successful career men recognize the difference between pride and positive self-esteem. They can have a better rapport with their clientele. On the other hand, those suffering from false pride and bloated ego fail to impress upon their peer group and in their professional arena. Even some women get put off as they would like a “down-to-earth person,” not pretentious.
The motto must be to recognize yourself, appreciate yourself, and learn to overcome your deficiencies to win over the hearts of others. It isn’t easy, but one must consciously try to do so.
Referance: mayoclinic.org
